Friday, 28 January 2011

teach not friendship, it's there

well i am happy to learn that some people are reading what i write (statistics back end show so!). so thank you for the encouragement. what i miss, however, is to know who's reading as none write back. but thank you any way. it's ok, till you continue to read.
it's a mystical era of communication we are living in. all of us who are online and reading each other do not have a second thing in common - we are all exclusive with our own styles and preferences. you know what binds us still? it's a feeling of being a part of the larger family embeded deep within - we are one. we are humanbeings. a fact that we repeatedly ignore giving priority to self developed classifications.
else why we are interested in social networking so deeply. people who use such innovation as marketing tool, readily get marked and kicked out of our friend networks. but what keeps us going ahead and still keep looking for newer friends. 'friends', yes! friends!
there are some who will never understand these details. after all all social products have appendices. but buddies when such extensions rot, they damage the entire system. hatrate begets hatrate.
hate none in return. avoid.
this year has many occassions to make the world better than what it was exactly 365 days ago. go ahead! meet, share. some of the friends who supported us and had grown with us, some who have lived all along but have now been replaced by professional connects, some who are still to come in our life. for friendship, we don't need one particular day! it's an all-year festival.
To all my friends who have always been around - in front or off-sight and to all humans who are going to be my friends in years to come - dear buddies here's an off-season wish but dilse!
happy friendship day! i see no point in waiting for august to come. exactly say things, when you feel you want to say. why wait for the best things to come in life as predetermined by imposed styles, get them.

1 comment:

Naved Zia said...

Well poured thoughts... direct dilse ;) Friends are friends after all... friends reflect the choices we make in life... we cannot pick family, our mates are dictated to some extend by the social ambience around us... but our friends can be as diverse and infinite as we want. I am gratefull to Allah (subhanahu ta'ala) to have let me have a few very good people as friends and let me be a part of their life... sharing tears, pain, joy, love. Friends with whom there is understanding and forgiveness without the need for even asking for it. Who depend on each other and are always there, through times of trial, happy times and hard times. Friends where there is no grudges or demand perfection... where there is a shoulder to lean on and its getting better by age. thank you all for hanging on...

Naved